Tuesday, October 14, 2008

John's Birthday

John's birthday was last week on Oct 7th. John had icecream sundays as he prefers icecream to cake. We bought this question mark candle especially for John because he never knows how old he is. (He is 37, and if we remind him of that, he suddenly feels old).

We tried to trick John by getting him new pajama bottoms for his gift and putting his real present, an mp3 player inside the pockets. But the mp3 player slipped out of the pocket and into the wrapping-- oh well, at least John got what he wanted and pajama bottoms with no holes to boot.

Ruth, Kate, and Johnny all spent their own money to buy John Lindt Chocolate. They all wrapped or hid their presents in different ways. Ruth wrapped a backpack; Kate put hers in a three ring binder and wrapped the binder, and Johnny tried to bribe John for video game time if he gave him a birthday present. All in all, I think John had a pretty good birthday. But after a week of use with the mp3 player, John has decided to exchange it for another one of the same in hopes that the quirky things with this mp3 player happened to only have something to do with the ones in this box. It is a good thing I shopped at the store, and not the internet.
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Sunday, October 12, 2008

The Play


Warning: You will not get this if you do not know The Lord of the Rings By. JRR Tolkein

I have been reading The Lord of the Rings to my 3 oldest children. We have really enjoyed these books as a family. Well, the kids have started to play The Lord of the Rings. Today on into tonight they had made a pretty big event of "The Lord of the Rings Play" as they call it. Ruth was the Lady Eowin, from Rohan, and Kate was the Elf, Arwin, Elrond's daughter and Aragorn's love. Johnny was Frodo the ring bearer. After dinner Adam wanted to play too. At first Adam was Gollum, because he was killing Frodo, but then Adam wanted to be on the good side. He has been sitting up while we read the books lately and asked if he could be Strider. The older kids said that Adam could only be an orc or Gollum. John and I thought that this was rather funny because when John was a kid the three oldest kids in his family always played Star Wars. John and his brother James were always either Luke or Hans Solo, and his sister, Mary was always Leah. If their sister Margaret, the fourth child like Adam, wanted to play, they would only let her play if she would be ChewBacca.

Well, to help the matter some, I went in and told the kids that I was SauraMom. Every one laughed at that. Then 2 year old Rachel started marching around the house chanting, "Sorry-mom, Sorry-mom, Sorry-mom." John was just in Dad heaven with the cuteness of his kids playing something that he loves and acting the same way he did as a child.

Thursday, October 9, 2008

The Question


Everyday about 30 times a day Adam asks me, "How is your day, mammamia?" Mostly, I know that he is very sweetly trying to have a conversation with me, but after the tenth time in 2 hours, I just can't think of anything different to say. Yesterday I said, "Adam, you need a new question." He nodded and shouted, "How was your STUPID day MOM!??!!!"

Tuesday, October 7, 2008

About Rachel


Rachel gets eczema very badly on her for arms and on the back of her knees. I asked her pediatrician about this, after she still had it for 7 months. I was worried that it was the result of allergies to cats or milk or something. The doctor said that 90% of kids with this kind of rash do not have allergies. Since no one else in our immediate family has food allergies we decided to not test her at this time. The doctor told me to put thick globs of ucerin on the spots. I started to do that, and when I remembered to do so consistently her rash cleared up a lot. When I was not consistent about it, she would break out with a fresh rash.

Rachel has been really whiny since about a month before she turned 2. We thought it was the new baby or just being two. But it can be very frustrating to have a day when a child whines at you throughout the entire day. Ruth kept praying that the babies would not make things so hard for me. In the temple, last month, John prayed about what to do with Rachel's whining. He felt like we should be consistent about putting the cream on her rash. Since then John and I have been diligent in treating Rachel's rash, and she has not been fussy. She has also not been getting into things and destroying things so much. We are very thankful for a Heavenly Father who is willing to instruct us so specifically on how to care for our children.

Rachel can talk in complete sentences and her words are much clearer now. This makes life a lot easier for both Rachel and I. But it also means we get to enjoy some of the funny and ridiculous notions of a two year old. If anyone calls Rachel a girl, monkey, monster, princess, baby, etc., she immediately says, "I am not... I am Rae Rae." The fact that she calls herself Rae Rae is rather cute, because when she was born, I said that we were not going to shorten her name to "Rae." But Adam, who is only 17months older than Rachel called her Rae Rae from her birth. It kind of just stuck and now that is what she calls herself. However, she doesn't correct you if you call her Rachel.

About two weeks ago, Rachel was very messy!!!! She took two and often three baths each day. When she was finished eating she would squish her food together and paint the tray of her high chair. The last two weeks, that has changed drastically. Rachel has suddenly become a much neater eater. And now she gets upset if her clothes have food or water on them. Yesterday we had a lot of rain and Rachel would go out for a bit, and then come in and change her clothes. She has done the same thing today if she gets water on her shirt sleeves when she washes her hands. Last night at dinner I heard Rachel quietly saying, "Shoot, shoot, shoot, I got it on me." I think she will be graduating to the table with the family soon.

Thursday, October 2, 2008

Good Mom, Too BAd (title by Kate)


Yesterday, I had to wash our floor during the day because I neglected to do it the night before. It is usually pretty hard to do this with the kids around. So, thinking of all the parenting books and talks on parenting I have read and heard, I got Rachel her own little bucket of water and a rag. All this time, I'm thinking, "Boy, I'm a good mom." So Rachel had her bucket and rag and I had mine and we started to wash the floor together. (I was still feeling pretty good at this point). Then Adam came in and grabbed the bucket from Rachel. Rachel started screaming, and tugging the bucket back. I told then to share the bucket. They did not. They kept screaming until they dumped out the entire bucket of water. I gave Adam a dry rag and told him to wipe up his spill, and then told Rachel to go to her room until I finished washing the floor. Then I sent Adam to Rachel's room too. I no longer felt like a good mom-- I felt like a dumb mom. Why did I not think to get two small buckets? I have to get 2 or 3 or 4 or 5 or 6 of everything else or have lots of fighting, grumpy kids.

Rachel at Dinner


Last night at dinner I was telling John that I wanted to put Rachel to bed early because she had been so fussy. Rachel immediately said, "I AM NOT FUSSY!!!! aAAAAAAAA."

Gorilla Fun

We went to the Zoo for a couple of hours on Saturday, and as you can see, the Gorilla's were very entertaining. The Gorilla house is also air conditioned, which helped to make it, the best part of the zoo.



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