Sunday, September 1, 2019

This Week at Our House # 35 Last Week of August



 Is it really September 1st already???

This week was busy, busy, busy and I did not get everything done that I needed to. Oh well, probably most women alive could say that. School went well.

Monday is our hardest day of school. We made it through, survived 3 dentist appointments, and even mowed a bunch of our lawn. Monday was probably my most productive day. Johnny had his dentist appointment and has no cavities. Rachel had one filling done and has one more to go. Rachel managed the Novocaine shot and then was a pro through the drilling and filling. Arwen had sealants put on her 4 six year old molars. The taste of the cleaning solution, bothered her so much that she started to puke. But she swallowed it back and bravely got all the work done. I think the dental assistant was relieved that she was not puked on. I made a crockpot dinner, which gave me time to get some mowing done. John and Adam mowed some too.

Tuesday we stayed home all day and got school in, and more mowing done. We still have more mowing to do. Rachel has been slow about getting her school work done. Some days she spends so much time sitting and day dreaming that she doesn't finish until 6pm. Everyone else is done by 2 or 3pm. Adam finished mowing our biggest section of lawn while Rachel slowly got through the same work that Adam finished hours earlier.

By Wednesday the kids have less school to do. I make each day a little easier, so by the time we get to Friday, our wish to have the school work over with comes true faster. Arwen and Josh have a world history workbook that they love because it is a little bit of reading a big amount of craft projects. We did the biggest craft project yet for this course. Susan joined in. Susan and Sam have decided that they both enjoy cutting and gluing.

Thursday we completed school and
then I went on our weekly shopping trip. The trip is long because it is about a half hour drive to the stores. When we moved here, we ended all quick trips to stores. I go once a week at most now. I have to carefully plan a menu, seek out what ingredients I need to buy. I also need to make sure that I get everything we need that is a non-grocery item. If I miss out, we wait until my next trip. This has made it so I have to be much more organized when I shop. Our errands, while not really taking longer, take a large chunk of one day because they are consolidated. This Thursday, I took the 6 youngest kids and left the 6 oldest home to clean up and make dinner. When I take the youngest kids with me, I get a lot of comments about my hands being full or about having too many little problems. Joseph is a big helper now, though. He helps with the younger kids. Joseph, Joshua, and Arwen all love getting items off the shelf and helping that way. All 6 of my little kids were good too. They aren't always, but this week they were and the trip was reasonably easy.

Friday is our easy school day and also our clean the house day. When we planned on making homeschool a permanent part of our lives, I knew that I would need the kids to do a lot more housework. When the kids were in school, I was happy to do most of the work during the day while they were in school and have them help get their bedrooms and bathroom cleaned on Saturday. Since I tried homeschool once before, I knew that would not work because I just do not have the time during the school day to do all the work that I did when they were in school. I decided that the kids would have housework as part of the school week. It would teach them to clean and organize and to have responsibility for their living space. I chose Friday as the cleaning day. On Fridays we have spelling tests, story club, and a weekly drawing competition and housework. We mow, we repair, we wash floors, walls, clean underneath and around furniture and appliances. We wash bathrooms, and the kitchen. Pick up and vacuum and dust, and just whatever is in needed gets done. I make assignments that morning according to what needs to get done. And that is our school day. For an example, this week, Ruth did laundry and vacuumed. Johnny
put in a floor divider between the hall carpet and the bathroom and swept. Kate and Rachel cleaned the kitchen and baked homemade mini eclairs (treat for after chore time). Joshua picked up the main living area and cleaned on and under couches. Joseph picked up the boys room and hallway. Anya picked up the girls room and the parents room. Adam and Susan and Sam cleaned out the van. I scrubbed down the two bathrooms and helped clean the van.

Saturday is our free day. No one is assigned anything other than floor pick up, cooking, and dishes. This Saturday, my sister Amber had flown into Charlotte to visit my family. I took Ruth, Adam, Rachel, Anya, Joseph, Joshua, Arwen, Susan, Sam, and Gideon early in the morning, drove for five and a half hours to my parents. We visited for 5 and a half hours and then drove home. My sister Amber is doing really well. It was nice to see her.

Sunday, we went to church, and I found out that hurricane Dorian may take a north easterly route and we may get hit by the tail end of it, beginning on Thursday. We have already done some hurricane prep, but we have more to do. We may take a day or two off from school to get the house ready.





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Adam's drawings

Joseph's Drawings

Kate's drawings

Anya's Drawings

Rachel's drawing

I'm pretty sure this is Rachel's









Sunday, August 25, 2019

Happy 20th Birthday, Kate


This amazing girl, is all grown up and entering her third decade. She is not where she wants to be in her life right now, but she is happy and productive. Kate is one of my very best friends. She has been for many years now. I go to her for advice, as she is very wise. I love to play card games with her and read books with her and discuss the gospel with her. Kate is a talented artist and writer. She is full of knowledge in a great many subjects. I could not be happier with this beautiful daughter the Lord gave to our family.

This Week at Our House # 34 A Sunday Birthday


We had a quiet week with little going on. We got school in without much trouble. Things that we had that would have made us more busy, got cancelled. The only things of note were Friday, I took Rachel, Anya, Arwen, and Susan to the beach for a swim, and today is Kate's birthday.

This week was the first week that I ever left Gideon for more than an hour. He did fine, but he seems a little more sensitive and watches me a little more closely. I left him with Ruth while I did my big weekly grocery shopping trip. Ruth seemed weathered when I got back. Gideon hadn't been crying, but he clung to her for the whole 3 hours.

Friday, I left Gideon for another 3 hours while I went to the beach. Kate watched him. I think Gideon was a little less clingy because Kate had finished everything that needed to be done for dinner. I had put meat in the crockpot and Kate got everything else prepared.

I asked Kate if she feels bad that she is no longer a teenager and she said, "I don't think I ever was a teenager." She is right. I said that we did not have teenagers, we had young adults, and Kate lived up to that. Then we discussed how we really didn't feel like we could call Rachel a young adult yet, but she is not exactly a teenager either. She is still just a kid. Though I was glad to
remember that back in the day, I said, "be young adults, please," and they were.

Gideon has been shaking his head no, which is cute, but I was not sure if he meant "no". Now I know that Gideon not only means no, but he definitely understands the word. I was going through Hiragana flashcards (one of the Japanese alphabets) and saying the sounds out loud. Gideon thought that was funny and crawled up to me. When I got to the symbol that is pronounced no. Gideon began shaking his head no.
After that I watched him more closely. I noticed that he shook his head no to a lady at church when she held her arms out to take him. He shook his head no when I offered him a piece of a pumpkin cookie and he shook his head no when Sam started to take away his toy. Gideon also very clearly says "Hi", though it comes out more like a "ha" but his meaning is unmistakable. That makes Gideon my youngest child to ever say a word. Johnny said hi to people at just 8 months. Gideon started between 5 and 6 months. Ruth understood what no meant by 8 months, but she did not use it herself until much later. So I am pretty sure Gideon is my youngest child to ever gesture no and mean it. That started probably around 6 and a half months.

Adam has very thoroughly joined my crew of historians. He transcribes church historical documents every single day and he is loving it. When asked what he likes to do now, Adam tells people that he likes to draw. I have a whole crew of artists too. John, Ruth, Kate, Johnny, Adam, Rachel, Anya, sometimes Joseph, Joshua, and Arwen all spend significant time drawing. I have to keep our paper locked up, so we don't spend too much money on it.

I had Rachel and Anya clean the bathrooms this week. I usually wash them, while having other people wipe them down through the week as I notice a need. That posed an interesting problem. I am speedy at bathroom cleaning, but my kids are not. Rachel and Anya had both toilets blocked up with cleaner for about 2 hours. I will ask them to do it again because they need to speed up. But it was funny, how many people were going around stressed and worried about getting to the bathroom on time. When it was my turn, I just washed the toilet, then used it. Then I told everyone which toilet was available.

We are back to doing our story club. Joseph is an excellent writer. He likes his stories. They are interesting, and he is starting to write them well. All week long Joseph will beg people to read his story, but when we have story club, he runs away and tells other people to read it. When we call him back, he lays on the floor with a pillow over his head. He can handle sharing his story one person at a time, but he is too embarrassed to share it to the whole family together.

Rachel said that her favorite part of
school is her weekly vocabulary. Rachel and Adam have a list of about 20 unusual words. Rachel has been writing the funniest sentences and short stories using the words involving a gang she named, "The Insidious Knives". Her sentences and her stories have been very enjoyable to read.

Arwen said some funny things to me on the way to the beach. She looked at a big house and mentioned how she wanted a big house with lots of beautiful flowers, chickens fenced in the back, and no woods. She said
that she thinks woods are ugly. Then she told me that she wished she was the kind of kid who got everything right in school. She basically does, though. I think of Arwen as one of my easier kids to teach.

Anya is no longer afraid of swimming at the beach. She goes right in and swims with Rachel and enjoys it.

Joshua is always bringing bugs into the house. This week he brought in a large grass hopper and a very large dragon fly. He found ants from different sides of the house, put them together and they fought each other and tried to eat each other. I had thought all the ants that get inside were friends, but that is obviously not true. I have told the kids not to kill spiders, with the exception of black widows, because they eat other bugs. There is a spot under the table where a spider resides, so Josh has now determined he does not have to pick up there in case he accidentally kills the spider. There is a wolf spider the size of a silver dollar that lives in the laundry room, and while
Josh will pick up any number of large bugs, he will not go into the laundry room alone because he is afraid of that spider.

Susan is doing well with school. Her drawing and handwriting has improved immensely. She loves the little alphabet games and stories that are part of her schooling. She is learning letters a through f.

I over heard a funny conversation between Arwen and Susan. Susan asked, "Arwen are you my cousin?"
Arwen said, "no-o".
Susan said, "That is ok Arwen. You can just be my cousin."

Susan looked at our trees and said, "Oh there are a lot of red leaves, and green leaves. Dinosaurs eat leaves!" And a moment later while looking at our neighbor's horses she said, "Horses! I like to feed horses apples because horses like apples." We have no red leaves on our trees right now, and she has never fed a horse.

Ah, I have one more Susan story. We were listening to thunder. Last year whenever the sky got dark and began to thunder, Susan would run scared and say, "a dragon is coming," so I asked Susan if a dragon was coming and she said, "No a
storm is coming. I know it is only a storm now."

Samuel has been potty trained for sometime now, except that he is afraid of the toilet and insists on using a potty chair. This week, he started using the toilet some. The past two days, he has pooped in the toilet, but he tends to use way too much toilet paper.


More Pictures


Arwen's drawing

Josh's drawing


Anya's drawing

Adam's drawing

Ruth's drawings

Kate's drawings