Tuesday, April 9, 2013

This Week at Our House #13



  1.  John is very thoroughly enjoying his unemployment vacation. As long as it doesn't last too long, I am sure he will look back on it as a happy time with the family. He had a job interview that went really well. We will see if it turns into anything. We stayed in Provo at John's parent's house for the conference weekend. I know that John really enjoyed with time playing late night games with his brother and chatting with his parents.
  2. I LOVE General Conference, almost as much as Christmas! I came in with some questions and left having them all answered. I intend to spend some time writing my thoughts on some of the talks. My favorites were Boyd K Packer, L Tom Perry, Elaine S Dalton, Jeffery R Holland, and President Monson's arson story. It always amazes me how bold and kind the apostles can be in just a few statements. 
  3. Ruth had spring break. She slept a lot and hung out with Kate a lot. Ruth payed close attention and took careful notes all through conference. She has grown up since those first few years struggling to get her to sit through any of conference. Friday morning, Ruth pretended to be a "weeping angel" from Dr. Who, held her hand out toward the light and ordered the lights to go off just as our electricity went out. That was a fun way to lose our electricity. Apparently, the whole west side of our area was without electricity for about 4 hours.
  4. Kate LOVED having Ruth all week. She spent every moment she could hanging out with Ruth. 
  5. Nothing interesting happened for Johnny this week. He took spring break off from home school and just hung out. Johnny is just a good kid and fairly easy to please.
  6. Adam had a pretty good week too. He had a lot of fun at Rachel's birthday party-- a little too much fun. I had to keep telling him to settle down. Because Adam and Rachel are just a grade apart, they know each other's friends well. Adam listened to all 4 sessions of conference, albeit very wiggly.
  7. Rachel turned 7! She had an awesome week filled with Easter stuff, birthday stuff, cousins, and sleeping over at Grandma's.
  8. Anya had a ton of fun at Rachel's birthday party too. During the day, Anya hangs out with Joseph, and during the evening Anya hangs out with either Adam or Rachel. Adam seems to quite like Anya and is always asking her to play with him. Things like that just melt my heart. I love watching my kids play together.
  9. I am trying with Joseph, and Joseph is "trying". This week, Joseph drew all over the walls and laughed about it. He punched me and told me that he was going to break all of my things, he pooped his pants and laughed that John had to clean up the mess. I hope that we can survive this stage. I am trying to clap and get real excited every time Joseph obeys me. I think he needs more attention. He doesn't respond much to punishment. He's a tough kid right now. He doesn't throw fits, he just terrorizes property.
  10. Josh is just adorable. He makes us laugh and smile everyday! He loves his cars, and trucks, and trains, he loves to look at books and draw, he loves to cuddle and be held. I'll miss these sweet days with little Josh.
  11. I cannot get Arwen to eat much solid food. I am not sure if it is taste or texture issues. She will eat small pieces of bread, but nothing else. I tried giving her some banana and avocado and she just gagged and spat it out. I know she can swallow fine because she eats bread and paper. I think I will just set her with safe finger foods and let her figure this out by herself.

This Week's Pictures

Josh watching Grandpa's trains








 



Monday, April 8, 2013

Easter To Do's

On Easter Sunday, we had our usual and very nice Easter lesson. This is the best illustrative lesson about the Savior, His atonement and the true meaning of Easter. The kids really learn from it and it is set up in a way that even the littlest kids pay attention. After that we watched The Lamb of God. We finished our Easter celebration, with a wonderful lamb dinner. I had bought a huge lamb roast in January for a third of the cost of what it is around Easter. The kids ate and ate and ate. Kate made apple crisp for dessert. I would have said we had a perfect Easter day based upon the teachings of the Savior if Joseph hadn't drawn all over the walls before church and we continued to discover more drawings as the day progressed.

We didn't get to any candy and egg stuff until Friday. Friday morning the kids woke up to filled Easter baskets. I filled the Easter baskets for 8 children on $25. I am pleased!




 On Saturday, at Grandma's house with the cousins, we dyed eggs. A few of my kids even dyed their hands. It's a good thing the weather was nice and we did the egg dying outdoors.








 Finally, we hid our eggs and the kids got to hunt for them. Grandma had a lot of candy for all of the kids. I'd have to say that with unemployment and all, our kids had some pretty great Easter celebrations.





7 Years Old


 Little Rachel turned 7! I can hardly believe this little one is already 7.  She is just 33 pounds. Rachel is easy to please on her birthday because she LOVES birthdays. This year, we brought treats to her class. John came this year. Rachel, jumped onto John's lap, patted his belly, and announced, "This is my Dad, Santa Claus."



 In the evening, I made her dinner request of cream of broccoli soup in bread bowls, which she surprised me and ate. Then we opened her presents. I bought her presents well ahead of time and Anya had already told Rachel what they were. I think Rachel was still happy. For dessert we had pie, which Rachel did not eat and I was not surprised.
On their birthdays, I let the kids stay up and hang out with me a while. Rachel requested painting. We ended her day with some painting. Rachel painted a picture of Merida
 Rachel's birthday was over, but the celebration was not. Two days later on Friday, Rachel had a birthday party with her friends from school. She had a ton of fun, and since I kept the party to one hour, I survived a house full of 6 and 7 year olds.We made crowns, decorated cupcakes, played pin the crown on the bear, and went on a bear hunt. Success!









Sunday, March 31, 2013

This Week at our House #12




  1. John finished his awful job with TDW on Wednesday. He had Thursday and Friday with no work. He is still looking for a job. I am relieved because he will no longer be coming home every night telling me how awful his day went. We have some money to get us through another 2 months, but prayers for a new job are always welcome.
  2. To say I had another busy week would be an understatement. Monday had the the usual early morning run, daily chores and family home evening as well as a lot of phone calls with doctors culminating with a visit to a bone specialist and an x-ray and finally being told the honest truth that a 2 year olds bone would grow back normally with no doctor visits. Tuesday night was Celebrate the Family at the capitol. I needed chocolate pie after that. Wednesday was the normal busy-ness. Thursday, I went up to Saratoga Springs for a couple hours at the park with some dear friends, and then picked up the matching love seat to our living room sofa at my mother in laws in Provo. When I got home it was rush, rush, rush to get the kids dinner and then out to the temple with John. Friday morning Adam had the animal expo at his school. In the afternoon, I had the field trip for BYU-Idaho students. Saturday morning I did chores as fast as I could and then it was time to get back to the Temple for my brother's sealing to his wife. Then we ran home quickly, got the seats back in the van and brought the kids up to the luncheon for the sealing. We stayed a short time and then John dropped Ruth, Kate, and I off at the conference center for the Young Women's general conference meeting. That was very lovely. Afterwards, we hung out with cousins who were attending the conference from WY. We hit the store for a couple needed items on the way home and got home after 9:30. Whew, what a week!
  3. Ruth had several tests and projects due this week. She certainly had her hands full too. I loved being at the Conference Center for Young Women's conference yesterday. We had great seats. I think Ruth fount it pretty neat to be so close to the prophet. She also had a lot of fun seeing favorite cousins afterwards. Ruth as always, played the part of the sheppard with her siblings Tuesday night at the Capitol. Ruth left having a keen sense of who the "not for traditional family" group honestly is, and what they are like in real life. While I felt bad that I had accidentally brought my family into that type of environment, I think, at least for the older kids, this experience will keep them from being deceived by the media and teachers at school.
  4. Have I said Kate is my right hand man? She is also my advocate in training. She came with me Friday for the Capitol tour and field trip. Kate had the honor of being singled out and welcomed by Senator Margaret Dayton-- one of my political heroes! I loved having Kate leaning on me during the Young Women's conference. I love having teenage daughters!
  5. Johnny had a busy week of chores making up for me not being at home so much. He did well too. He even got the kids put to bed and the house picked up Saturday night before I got home.  However, with the last two busy weeks we have missed Johnny's scouts and he will again miss the next week for Rachel's birthday.
  6. The menacing crowd at the Capitol really frightened Adam on Tuesday. He really wouldn't even talk much afterwards. A good nights sleep and a lesson on Lehi's Dream and the great and spacious building helped. I think Adam was completely shocked at the idea of real life "bad guys". I would have never brought him into that environment if I had known. We were going to celebrate the family and show the Supreme Court that we support traditional marriage. All week long Adam reminded me that his animal expo was at school on Friday at 10am every day all week. Every time he reminded me, he asked if I would bring Anya too-- so cute. He had done his report on Bald Eagles. He did an excellent job. He had made a bald eagle, a nest with eggs and a baby eagle. His report was well written!!!!
  7. We saw Rachel at recess with her best friends when we were leaving Adam's class. What a cutey!! She is a tiny one too. Rachel came with me Friday to the field trip. She sat quietly for the entire three hours. I had to buy her ice cream afterwards. I asked her if she listened to any of the talks. She shrugged her shoulders and told me that she loved having all of that time to cuddle with me. I had her sitting on my lap most of the time. I never do any of my political stuff without my kids. They come first, so I use the time as a small one on one or two on one time with me. 
  8. Anya played outside all week long. She loves to be outdoors! And she always makes a terrible mess outdoors. She turns on the water, makes mud, paints the fence, and turns everything into a big muddy soup. This week, I decided that since out back yard is small and the kids really don't have anywhere to explore, I'll let the kids make their big outdoor mess and relax about not having a clean back yard.
  9. Joseph played outside all week with Anya. He made the same mess. He brought mud into the house. He covered the bathtub and the sink and the toilet, some places of the wall and the muddy footprints throughout (glad I have a wood floor now). 
  10. Josh did indeed break his clavicle. The bone was broken straight through. By Monday morning it was swollen enough that he wouldn't use his right hand or arm. We got him a sling and that seemed to help some. He occasionally woke up in pain in the middle of the night until Friday. Friday, I could feel a bump over the bone and Josh would no longer keep the sling on. He began using his right arm again too. This morning Josh stayed in the bathtub longer than the other little kids. John called to him and he would not answer. John called two more times and he still didn't answer. John called out cars, Josh called cars back got out of the tub and went to John. Josh is just the funniest little thing. I wish he wasn't so accident prone. Oh by the way, Josh sat quietly through the celebration of the family program because he was watching YouTube videos of trains on John's phone.
  11. Arwen turned 8 months this week. She still isn't crawling, which would make her slower to crawl then most of my kids. She will inch worm to get things, but she doesn't go across the whole room. She still is pretty much straight nursing. I've tried to give her solid food, but she doesn't want it. Arwen is still the sweetest, happiest, funnest baby.

This Weeks Pictures

At the capitol on Tuesday



My Dearest Friends. We all have a plethora of children and love it.

Adam and Rachel heading off to school

Adam's Animal Project



Rachel at Recess
Seth and Marie were sealed in the Temple

Young Women's General Conference-- such an amazing contrast to Tuesday at the Capitol

My Beautiful Girls!!!


Saturday, March 30, 2013

Come Join the Ranks


Tuesday night I took my whole family to the State Capitol to be a part of the Utah Celebration of Marriage. As we arrived, we noticed that there were a lot of protestors. There were possibly more protestors then there were supporters. In the middle in chairs sat the people there to celebrate the traditional family. On all three level and filling both large stair cases the protestors surrounded the supporters. It felt menacing. The program went on with some interruption, but on it went. Many of the speakers were good and there was a lot of fun music particularly performed by children. Still it was menacing. I wish I hadn't brought my younger children. Rachel stared a few people down because well, they looked different. Adam was afraid. But, we stayed because it seemed important to keep our numbers there in support of mom and dad families. At the end of the closing prayer, the protestors began chanting loudly. My kids covered their ears and we escaped. In fact, gratefully no one was harmed.

I had been scheduled to speak to BYU-Idaho students on Friday. After the experience Tuesday, i trashed all ideas for my talk and decided that the most important thing was to entreat these students to become involved. I know the Spirit lead me to the sources I needed, as well as the wording I needed to use. Here is my speech. And Yes, I am entreating you to "Come Join the Ranks"

In 1938 when Hitler began taking over Czechoslovakia, The Czech’s sought help from the English Prime Minister, Neville Chamberlain. In response, Chamberlain set up a personal visit with Hitler, Mussolini, and French Premier Daladier in Munich. Czech President Benes was not invited. In this meeting, Chamberlain gave Hitler what he wanted. On his return to England, Chamberlain declared to a cheering crowd, “There will be peace in our time!”

In response in a private meeting with the House of Commons, Winston Churchill stated, “They should know that we have sustained a defeat without a war...the whole equilibrium of Europe has been deranged, and that the terrible words have...been pronounced against the Western democracies: ‘Thou art weighed in the balance and found wanting’.”

In 1939, Time magazine made Hitler their “Man of the Year”.

The world was not long after pulled into a fierce war where millions were slaughtered.

I’d like to submit that we are in another war: a cultural war-- a war over the families and children. This war is being fought in the legislatures, the court rooms, the newsrooms, and the classrooms. Like Chamberlain, many leaders are throwing in their hats, giving the opposition exactly what they want and declaring, “There will be peace in our time!”

We know how well that worked for the Western Democracies more than 70 years ago.

The media and school classes and liberal colleges have spent the past 50 years training today’s population to believe “that what people do with their bodies sexually (because we care if someone is smoking or drinking more than 16 oz of soda) is their own business, so long as no one is harmed.” We’ve been taught that the justification of the sexual act is located in the desire itself, and the direction of that desire is taken as fact.

Harm is relative. Anthony Elosen, writer for the Witherspoon institute said, “It is a plain fact that what two people do in a bedroom is not confined to the bedroom. The most obvious evidence for this fact can be seen around us everywhere, walking on two legs. They are the creatures known as children.” Children are harmed by this premise. They are harmed when they are taught that the justification and direction of any sexual act is located in the desire. They are harmed when as a result of this belief they are born to a single parent or cohabitating parents, or parents that divorce or abandon them. They are harmed when they are denied a mother and a father.

Do not throw in your hats and hastily declare, “There will be peace in our time.” You cannot give in to evil and expect peace. You cannot compromise. Hitler never compromised. The liberal sexual-lites never compromise. Until the religious voice is completely silenced, they will not stop trying to rid all mankind of virtue. We need warriors willing to fight back, willing to sacrifice their time for the safety of families and children around the world. We need you.

What can you: today you can put up on Facebook a picture of your family and boldly declare:

I believe in traditional marriage. I believe children are entitled to be born to a father and mother who honor their marriage vows faithfully. I know that redefining marriage may seem like the compassionate thing to do, but I truly believe that it will ultimately hurt the coming generations and our society as a whole.

You can turn off the television when liberal sex is promoted

You can write blogs and editorials against gay marriage, abortion, and no fault divorce

You can contact your legislature telling them to vote in favor of family values

You can donate money to organizations like United Families International

You can join organizations like United Families International and learn to lobby and teach about the family.

You can stand firm in your belief that “the family is central to the Creator’s plan for the eternal destiny of his children.” No matter how loud and cool and compassionate the opposing voice sounds.

STAND FIRM!


Sunday, March 24, 2013

This Week at Our House # 11

  1. John finished his last full week at his current job. He's being laid off. This coming Wednesday is his last day of work. He hates this job a whole lot, so we do not feel particularly tragic about it. But, there are not many jobs out there. He has had a a few interviews in the last two weeks. Hopefully something will come up soon. For now, John will work 3 days this next week and then begin applying for unemployment.
  2. After lots of trouble with nursing the baby and not being able to get anyone to wake Adam and Rachel up for school, plus missing Saturday morning cuddling time with my kids, I've decided to quit training for the half marathon. I will still run 3 to 5 miles 3 days a week. I will still have to work out problems with my milk supply, but I will be more available to my kids. Maybe I will try again sometime when I am not nursing a baby. For now, I will work on picking up my speed for short distances. I actually do not feel too bad about this decision. After years of thinking about it, I have finally gotten myself into a good exercise routine. I will continue with short distances. 
  3. Ruth turned 15. She had a lot of fun with friends rolling skating for her birthday party. I took a chance and bought her a cheap-o mp3 player. I scored. She loves it. She has learned how to download her music on it and is looking forward to having her music on her bus rides to and from school. This year Ruth will learn to drive. I need to pick up the Utah state drivers book so she can begin studying to take her permit exam. She is excited for that change. I am excited that in a little over a year from now, I can send someone else off to run errands. I think it will be wonderful!
  4. As usual, Kate is my right hand man. She always makes herself available to me.  She plays with the little kids and they all adore her. She cooks, she cleans, she does her school work and enjoys it. She thinks of others before herself. Kate is just awesome! I will miss her terribly when she heads back to public school in the fall.
  5. Johnny had an uneventful week. Because I have been spending so much time feeding the baby, I have not had enough time to get to his school work, so in a way, Johnny has been enjoying a nice little school break. He's been spending the majority of his time reading the Ranger's Apprentice series.
  6. Adam was back to school this week and not too happy about the homework part. I am not too happy about the homework part either. I didn't like elementary school homework when I was in elementary school and I like it even less now that I am not in elementary school. Still we press forward. I tell Adam to do his homework and Adam grumbles and does it.
  7. Rachel got her first, "I am an awesome student" pink slip from her teacher this week. Her reading has improved tons and she has even moved up a reading group. 
  8. Since I spent a huge amount of time feeding the baby, Anya took my couch sitting time and cuddled with me a lot. I am glad that she is finally taking the initiative to get some attention from me. I worry about Anya not getting enough time with John and I because she is quiet and generally happy to just hang out in the back ground.
  9. Joseph came on a shopping trip to the City Creek mall for Ruth to spend her birthday money. I had to keep a close eye on him every second. I would continue to think that Joseph is a disaster waiting to happen, except that now I am his teacher in church on Sunday. While he is at least as energetic as the rest of the boys, he actually pays a little more attention. I am glad to know that he is normal and not just a tornado that never dies down. 
  10. Poor, poor little accident prone Josh. Saturday morning, Josh jumped on my bed, somersaulted off and seems to have fractured his collar bone. He has been one sad little boy the past two days. I will bring him to the doctors tomorrow for an official diagnosis. I am fairly confident, in my own diagnosis, though. You can actually wiggle the bone out of place a little. From what I have read, however, his break is not too bad because he is still using his arm and hand.
  11. Arwen, spent the whole week breast feeding. She ate for 2 hours straight Friday morning before she was satisfied. I have tried solid foods on her. She just does not want them. I do want want to push her away, so like I said, I am giving up on the half marathon. 

This Weeks Pictures







 

Fifteen

Friday, March 22, 2013, Ruth turned 15! She is such a good girl. She has been easy going and fun all of her 15 years.

Ruth had a party with her friends at the Roller Skate rink on Thursday, and a family party on Friday. I noticed that Ruth is giggly and goofy with her friends, and more serious and thoughtful with her family.

I love my girl. Happy 15th, Ruth!