Sunday, January 8, 2012

The First Snow

Joseph was the first to make it out. He had on fuzzy pj's, a hat, mismatched mittens, and boots!

Anya got the scarf, hat, mittens, and shoes, but she missed the coat note too.

Then Rachel missed the "You need a coat" note as well.

Okay, so it is family tradition. We don't wear coats or clothes in the snow.

Joshua so wanted to get to the snow. I finally let him touch it. He jumped up shocked and cried whenever I moved him close to the snow after that!


Saturday, January 7, 2012

The Last Faith Post Has Arrived



Remember when I said I had one more author to post about faith? Well, she has come through. Meet Maria Stahl, an amazing hard working woman full of faith. She travels all over the country every week and still makes it home to work in the temple and to attend church on Sunday. She grew up in Montana, but has lived in Utah, NYC, and Washington D.C.

“Faith is knowing the sun will rise, lighting each new day.” A while back Diane asked me to write something on faith, and every time I thought about this, this line from a children’s song would came to mind. The Bible dictionary states that “To have faith is to have confidence in something or someone” I like that word “confidence”. Webster Dictionary states that confidence is a firm belief; trust; reliance; the fact of being or feeling certain; assurance.

When we think about the word Faith in a religious context how do we have confidence in the things that may not be seen? As a child, how do we know that sun will rise? We don’t. It just happens. We don’t learn until many years later that the earth rotates on an axis every day. And then we learn that besides rotating on an axis it also rotates around round the Sun. If we are just learning, to have faith, sometimes we have to just accept that certain things will happen, not knowing why. As we actively learn more about our Savior Jesus Christ, we gradually learn to understand more about those things that are not seen and can truly have confidence that it will happen. I cannot see the earth rotate around the sun. I can see the effects of it though, every day. I was not there to see the atoning sacrifice that Jesus Christ gave for me and all of us, but I have learned to see the effects of it in my life and in those around me. I have confidence in that because I have learned to recognize it, just as I have learned to recognize when the sun will rise.

The opposite of confidence is diffidence or shyness. One who is shy is easily frightened or startled, not at ease with people, or shows distrust or caution; is wary. This definition reminds me of horses. When I was a kid, I grew up on a farm in Montana. We had some horses. Young horses would “shy” away from items that may come up to them on the side where their peripheral vision is not good. They will jump first before directly looking at whatever was on their side to decide whether it will hurt them or not, even if it was a plastic bag blowing in the wind. The difference in riding a shy horse verses a confident horse is great. As a rider on a shy horse you always have to have a firm hold of the reins, and be prepared for a bumpy ride, verses the trained, confident horse that has learned to look and be aware before deciding what to do. That ride is usually smoother and much more enjoyable.

As I think it is with life. Those who learn to have faith in Jesus Christ are able to ride through life a little smoother. That doesn’t mean that there may be things that will make them sad, hurt them , or make them want to run away. But with faith they can learned to have confidence to take the time to stop and look at it directly to understand it more fully.

Faith is knowing the sun will rise, lighting each new day. Faith is knowing the Lord will hear my prayers each time I pray. Faith is like a little seed: if planted it will grow. Faith is a swelling within my heart. When I do right, I know. 

Faith is know I lived with God before my mortal birth. Faith is knowing I can return when my life ends on earth. Faith is trust in God above; in Christ, who showed the way. Faith is strengthened; I feel it grow whenever I obey. I hope that this year , we can all strive to strengthen our Faith.

Thursday, January 5, 2012

2 Notes

  1. Joseph is a very verbal 2 year old, and he just fascinates me with all of the things his two year old brain thinks about. Like when he took my Valrohna chocolate disk and said, "it is a boat." The chocolate boat then floated through the air and into his mouth with a few engine sounds to boot.
  2. I saw the obgyn. There was a baby, 9 weeks, 2days. The baby had a beating heart and was even wiggling. All looks well.  I am due Aug 5th. 9 kids sounds HUGE! But when I hold this new little one, I know it will fit right in and just belong.

Monday, January 2, 2012

New Years Resolutions

Resolutions 2011:
  1. 1.Potty Train Anya: Done before the end of January.
  2. 2.Potty Train Joseph: Didn't happen at all. (Why was I able to potty train my first 5 kids all before 2 1/2 and I have not been able to do it with my 6th and 7th? I am wondering if I have just gotten lazy?)

Resolutions 2012:
1.Find and incorporate healthy vegetarian dishes into our weekly diet.
  • Why? Because I have always tried to do meatless dishes 3 to 4 days a week, but they have never been healthy. It is always something like pancakes or bread and fruit, or milk based soups. We have done beans and rice, but I have too many kids that just won't eat that to make it a realistic dinner.
  • Do I think I will succeed? Maybe, if I can find recipes that I can easily buy ingredients for and they do not take more than 30 minutes of preparation. And only if I get this started in the first two months of the year. If I haven't gotten into this habit by the end of February, I am sure I will fail with this goal.
2. Teach My Children to take better care of and to respect things.
  • Why? Because they lose all of the game pieces and don't care. Because they brake something in the house and think, "no big deal". And frankly, I am tired of the destruction. This many kids can cause a lot of damage. And I think my kids can benefit from respect lessons.
  • Do I think I will succeed? Yes and No. No, because I am so out numbered. Yes, because I am mad. My kids will find that they will be in a lot more trouble for general destruction and carelessness.
3.Potty Train Joseph.
  • Why? Because he will be three in July, and at some point I always win out on this matter.
  • Do I think I will succeed? Absolutely, no question. This will happen in 2012.
4.Make music lessons a bigger deal.
  • Why? Because I am jealous from everyone's Christmas letters about how talented their kids are and how many instruments they play etc.
  • Do I think I will succeed? No, because my motivating force is jealousy, and I am very likely having another baby, which always makes that hard.
5. Teach Rachel how to get her shoes on the right feet.
  • Why? Because she is almost 6!
  • Do I think I will succeed? As long as I am diligent the first few months of the year.
6.And of course to EXERCISE MORE!
  • Why? well, I always need to.
  • Do I think I will succeed? I hope so. Maybe but I am not very good at this one. I keep thinking someday. Once I did, and was going strong until we moved. I was going strong last year too until I injured my foot. So maybe for a little while until something stops me like the birth of a baby.

Friday, December 30, 2011

Review Extravaganza: The Finale





The last three months of 2011, were pretty darn good. In October: I had this unique thing to say about home school:

Homeschool in the community is just soso. I have had two different experiences. Ruth and Kate are taking a Shakespeare class in Salt Lake. They are with a group of teens that are good and nice and talented. They like it. The moms involved are sociable and pleasant. I wish I could be sure that we would have interactions with this same group post Shakespeare class. I have not yet been able to find anything very social for my younger kids. I tried doing a park day in our area for young kids-- that failed. I tried do a teen night out for older kids in our area-- that failed. I have tried to join two different co-ops-- both of those have failed. We have gone to a party and two field trips with homeschoolers in Davis county. (See we live just on the Davis County and Salt Lake border. So the Shakespeare class is pretty equal in distance to most of the Davis county events.) I can hardly get anyone to associate with me or my children at field trips and parties. With the acception of two women, I can't even get the mothers of homescchooling families to associate with me. I go up to them. I introduce myself and my children. I try and find things to talk to about with them-- but nothing. In many cases I feel like they just wish me to go away. In one way my experience has been weird, in another way, I feel like I am dealing with an HOA when dealing with the homeschool community. I would completely think I was  socially retarded and the fault is all on my side except that I have not had these experiences with public school moms while volunteering in school and planning parties. I have not had these problems with my neighbors or my fellow church members. Socially, homeschool has been very unique.


Also in October, I wrote this personal story and had a lot of interesting commentary, which prompted me to do a week of faith, with guest writers in November. So in November I had a whole bunch of amazing things written about faith. You can find all of those awesome articles under the "Scripture Musings" tab.





Also in November, one of our vehicles broke down twice, so I wrote about how I deal with stress.

December, has been fairly quiet. We chose to be a one car family rather than spending all of our Christmas money repairing a car. We had a great Christmas and will get the car looked at in January. So 2012 will begin the decision to fix a car that has been breaking down a lot, or buy a new one.

 

Tuesday, December 27, 2011

Christmas 2011



  1. We had a very nice day with the Robertson's on Christmas Eve. We had a great rib eye roast dinner, sang carols,read stories, and just had a wonderful time with brothers ans sisters, Moms, and Dads, Aunts, and Uncles, and cousins.
  2. The kids woke up at 7:29, confessing that they didn't sleep much that night.
  3. We dumped out stockings and saw what Santa brought. Most kids were very pleased.
  4. We opened presents.
  5. We played with our new stuff for a while, and then began the Christmas cleanup.
  6. We halted the Christmas Cleanup to get ready for Church.
  7. We went to church with only about 20 other families, my brother Seth and his fiance, Marie.
  8. We came home, put sweet potatoes into the oven, and relaxed for 20 minutes.
  9. We made an easy but delicious Christmas dinner of salmon, rice, sweet potatoes, and salad. We also had some amazing dark chocolate, and smoked gouda cheese.
  10. We cleaned up dinner, and hung out with Seth, Marie, and my sister Amy. We played games, and did puzzles.
  11. We had some chocolate cake. 
  12. We cleaned up the rest of the Christmas mess.
  13. We read about the wisemen, and sent the little kids to bed.
  14. We chatted with Seth, Amy, and Marie until they left.
  15. We sent the big kids to bed.
  16. We had a great time playing the game John got for Christmas.
  17. We had a great Christmas without going into debt. We are very blessed with wonderful family, friends, and faith.

Twas the Night Before Christmas

When all through the house, I take a picture and realize, I didn't clean like I thought I had. But, with the help of a secret Santa, Santa came through and we didn't go into debt at all. Thank you, secret Santa and Grammas and Grandpas. We love you!