Who I am, and Why I Stand Where I Do: Part III

My experience with homosexuality all occurred while I was quite young. I got to see hands on how different people chose that lifestyle. In this segment of Who I am, and Why I stand Where I Do, I am going to cover why I think homosexuality is a choice, and how homosexual activists are proselyting to children. Friday, I am going to write a final segment and discuss how homosexual activists are recruiting you, the danger of the homosexual lifestyle, and what it really means to love your gay friend or family member.
 
First, I do not believe homosexuality is genetic. I do not believe anyone is "born gay". My personal experiences and scientific research tell me otherwise.

I had much of the same experiences as my friends. We all had adults tell us that we were gay. We all had friends tell us we were gay. We all had an opportunity to try out a homosexual relationship before we "felt" we may be gay. Many of us had psychiatrists tell us any depression or anxiety we felt was because we were gay and we would all be better if we embraced that lifestyle. We were all very young too.

Sometime ago, I reposted an article by the United Families International on the myth of the gay gene. Here is the complete article. Some of the highlights are:

1. No scientist or researcher has ever proven that homosexuality is genetic, immutable or unchangeable.  In fact many of the so-called gay gene studies, such as the Bailey/Pillard “twin studies,” prove the exact opposite – homosexual behavior is not genetic.
2. The American Psychological Association states: “There is no consensus among scientists about the exact reasons that an individual develops a heterosexual, bisexual, gay or lesbian orientation. Although much research has examined the possible genetic, hormonal, developmental, social, and cultural influences on sexual orientation, no findings have emerged that permit scientists to conclude that sexual orientation is determined by any particular factor or factors. Many think that nature and nurture both play complex roles….

You  can find a list of studies about genetics and homosexuality on page 35 of this document.

Second, The homosexual community proselytes. They are actively seeking to get young people to question their sexuality. Young people who have been molested or raped, girls who are tomboys, boys who are small of stature and like the arts, and children with depression and anxiety are particularly vulnerable. Why? Because these are the kids that either get told they are gay regularly, or because these are the kids that feel badly about themselves and are seeking for friends and a group to be a part of.

Here are two recent examples of the homosexual activists  proselyting homosexuality to children.

 Dan Savage, a homosexual activist leader began a campaign to "end bullying," called, It Get's Better. This campaign has put out TV advertisements,and is working to get gay-straight alliance clubs in schools.

One such add was aired during Fox's American Idle, June 10, 2011. When Peggy Nance, of Concerned Women for America, expressed outrage, Dan Savage, founder of the "It Gets Better project", stated::

“Nance’s son was always our target demo,”... “Again, we don’t know if he’s gay. But he might be and, if he is, he needs to hear from us.”
The “primary goal” of the campaign, he explained, is “to reach LGBT kids who are being bullied by their peers and their families.”
“Now I don’t know if Nance’s son is gay, bi, or trans, but if he is, he needs to know more than most that it can get better for him too, that there’s hope for his future, and that the adult world isn’t entirely populated by hateful s***s like his mother,” he wrote, adding “here’s hoping” that “Nance’s son is gay.”

Around the same time, Daniel Villarrea, a writer for The Queerity, a top online GBLT Magazine wrote an article entitled, Can We Please Just Start Admitting That We Do Actually Want To Indoctrinate Kids?. The entire article can be found here. (There is a lot of vulgar language in it.)

Other examples include public school programs already in place in California and Massachusetts.

Scott M. Soulier, of United Families International states:

Having a “gay” club to join in the secondary school setting  is tantamount to inviting students to self-label as gay, lesbian, bisexual, or sympathetic to the same.  Adolescents are psychologically unprepared to ponder such a question.  It is simply and demonstrably unsafe for youth to be allowed or encouraged to prematurely self-label.

From my own experience as a teenager, I would have to agree with this 100% . Every person I knew had significant trouble with depression and anxiety after having been involved in homosexual sex. And not one of these people came from a home where parents rejected their homosexuality or kicked them out of the home or anything of that sort. All of these people were supported and often congratulated by their friends. This was all before gay clubs, and school curriculum about homosexuality. Recent research by Remafedi, et al., supports my personal experience as well.


Scott M. Soulier, of United Families International highlights: I

1.  “…for each year’s delay in bisexual or homosexual labeling, the odds of suicide attempts are diminished by 20%.”
2.  “…suicide attempts were not explained by experiences with discrimination, violence, loss of friendship, or current personal attitudes towards homosexuality.”
3.   “…gender nonconformity and precocious psychosocial development were predictive of self-harm.
(Remafedi, G., Farrow, J. A., & Deisher,R. W., (1991). Risk factors for attempted suicide in gay and bisexual youth. Pediatrics, 87, p. 874.)

I do not believe that men like Dan Savage and Daniel Villarrea really care about children who are experiencing same sex attraction.These programs are not about love and helping people. Getting children to leave their families for a life of sex because "that is who they really are, " is not about love and help and safety.

Part IV coming soon:
How homosexual activists are recruiting you, and how to love your homosexual friend or family member.