Tuesday, November 13, 2012
Being a Girl
I heard Rachel crying from the upstairs. She was obviously upset. I asked her to come to me. I wanted to help her. I heard Rachel saying something through her tears, but I couldn't quite make it out-- maybe something about her hair. I knew that she had been looking around for our box of hair supplies. Rachel finally came to me absolutely balling and very, very sad. I asked her what was wrong-- she fell down, her stomach hurt, someone said a mean word--- the usual. Nothing could have prepared me for her answer. Rachel said, "When I look in the mirror, I notice that my face and my hair look ugly when I smile." She burst into more violent tears. I rubbed her back and stumbled out a, "you're pretty." But, well, um, I decided the same thing when I was young and Rachel looks JUST LIKE ME! Honestly, though, how do you help this girl problem?
Saturday, November 10, 2012
Dinner Menu
This is a nerdy thing to do, but I have been terrible about family dinner and need to fix it. It gets to 7pm and I am scrambling to figure out what to make. It is ridiculous!!!!! We hardly ever eat before 8pm. My family needs better and it is time for me to start delivering. Soooo, I am making a daily menu-- blahhhh-- most nights, I won't feel like eating what I write down now. I am hoping that if I start dinner prep in the mornings, I will just be happy it is ready by the time evening comes and it won't matter what I am craving. Here is the menu for the nest two weeks. Wish me luck. This is a weak point in my life right now.
- Saturday, Nov 10 pork chops on squash and broccoli (easy just put in the oven 1.5 hours before dinner)
- Sunday, Nov 11 pumpkin pie (if pancakes are acceptable so should pumpkin pie)
- Monday, Nov 12 taco salad
- Tuesday, Nov 13 new recipe day: sausage potato and kale soup http://thepioneerwoman.com/cooking/2011/10/sausage-potato-and-kale-soup/
- Wednesday, Nov 14 buttermilk pancakes and berries
- Thursday, Nov 15 roast beef and yorkshire pudding, baked sweet potatoes, mashed potatoes, and green beans
- Friday, Nov 16 mexican rice and refried beans
- Saturday, Nov 17 homemade build your own calzones
- Sunday, Nov 18 cinnamon rolls, fruit salad and milk
- Monday, Nov 19 lasagna
- Tuesday, Nov 20 bean burritos
- Wednesday, Nov 21poached eggs on toast
- Thursday, Nov 22 Thanksgiving dinner
- Friday, Nov 23 Thanksgiving left overs
Thursday, November 8, 2012
Sad, Sad, Sad, Sad...
Okay day 2 after the election and I am still sad and sooooooo very disappointed. I am not sure I really thought Mitt Romney would win the election but I had a lot of hope.
I am sad for the nation I love.
I am sad that in this election the majority of the people chose immorality. For the first time in history gay marriage is legalized in 2 and probably 3 states by the voice of the people.
I am sad that the majority of the people chose a president who vocally supports gay marriage and unfettered abortion. President Obama's abortion record is abominable.
I am sad because Mitt Romney is a good man. He worked well with others. He listened to what people had to say and he compromised. He would have given us at least 4 years of peace and prosperity. I will miss hearing him.
I am sad because I know from my friends that chose Obama chose him because of his views on gay marriage and abortion. They would have picked Mitt Romney for the economy.
In Mosiah 29: 26-27 it says:
After having a day plus to think things over. I realized something important. The First Presidency has asked us to do something. They said:
I am sad for the nation I love.
I am sad that in this election the majority of the people chose immorality. For the first time in history gay marriage is legalized in 2 and probably 3 states by the voice of the people.
I am sad that the majority of the people chose a president who vocally supports gay marriage and unfettered abortion. President Obama's abortion record is abominable.
I am sad because Mitt Romney is a good man. He worked well with others. He listened to what people had to say and he compromised. He would have given us at least 4 years of peace and prosperity. I will miss hearing him.
I am sad because I know from my friends that chose Obama chose him because of his views on gay marriage and abortion. They would have picked Mitt Romney for the economy.
In Mosiah 29: 26-27 it says:
26 Now it is not common that the voice of the people desireth anything contrary to that which is right; but it is common for the lesser part of the people
to desire that which is not right; therefore this shall ye observe and
make it your law—to do your business by the voice of the people.
27 And if
the time comes that the voice of the people doth choose iniquity, then
is the time that the judgments of God will come upon you; yea, then is
the time he will visit you with great destruction even as he has
hitherto visited this land.
"The voice of the people doth choose iniquity."
Thinking this all over, I have found one bit of comfort. After Obama received his 270+ electoral votes, the first presidency of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints issued a statement congratulating Obama. I am not good. I did not feel congratulatory AT ALL!!!
After having a day plus to think things over. I realized something important. The First Presidency has asked us to do something. They said:
It is a long tradition among Latter-day Saints to pray for our national
leaders in our personal prayers and in our congregations. We invite
Americans everywhere, whatever their political persuasion, to pray for
the President, for his administration and the new Congress as they lead
us through difficult and turbulent times.
Today, I realized that if all of us took this counsel to pray for the president and his administration that would help. Prayer can help a lot! I have witnessed the power of prayer, particularly when a great number of people are praying for the same thing . I am going to take the counsel of our prophet, seer, and revelator and pray and pray for President Obama.
The nation I love- the people I love need faith and prayers more than anything else right now.
Today I am going to stop being sad and press forward with faith. I will continue to stand up for morality in our laws and convince other people to do so too and then I will pray for President Obama to make good choices for America.
Saturday, November 3, 2012
Adam and Lemonade
Adam: Rachel, lemonade is made from lemons and nade-- something called nade.
Me: well actu-- (start to think this is too cute to ruin) --smiling.
Me: well actu-- (start to think this is too cute to ruin) --smiling.
Gender
In our family children have come in sets-- 2 girls, 2 boys, 2 girls, 2 boys, and now of course a baby girl.
Three years ago, Rachel and Anya were always sneaking into Ruth and Kate's bedroom and dumping out and messing up their stuff. Ruth and Kate had to keep their bedroom door locked. After about a year, Rachel and Anya quit sneaking in their sister's room and Ruth and Kate have quit locking their door. I thought for sure Joseph and Joshua would become a problem for Ruth and Kate. They have not. Joseph and Joshua have become a problem for Johnny and Adam.
Everyday, Joseph and Joshua sneak into Johnny and Adam's bedroom, dump out their things and make a mess. Now, Johnny and Adam have to keep their door locked.
I find it interesting that the little girls automatically got into the older girls room with no real interest in the older boys room and that the little boys automatically get into the older boys room but have no interest in their sisters' rooms.
Along the same lines, Joshua LOVES cars. We have showed him different sets of cars in the toy isles of the department stores. He cries when we put them back on the shelf (great news for Christmas!) The last time, we took cars away, we handed Josh a Barbie doll. He looked at it and pushed it angrily way.
We have not taught our boys that they should love cars and legos. They just do. We have not taught our girls that they should love dolls and pretty animals. They just do. I do not think it is wrong to teach gender rolls. It just doesn't seem necessary. It is like they were just born that way.
Three years ago, Rachel and Anya were always sneaking into Ruth and Kate's bedroom and dumping out and messing up their stuff. Ruth and Kate had to keep their bedroom door locked. After about a year, Rachel and Anya quit sneaking in their sister's room and Ruth and Kate have quit locking their door. I thought for sure Joseph and Joshua would become a problem for Ruth and Kate. They have not. Joseph and Joshua have become a problem for Johnny and Adam.
Everyday, Joseph and Joshua sneak into Johnny and Adam's bedroom, dump out their things and make a mess. Now, Johnny and Adam have to keep their door locked.
I find it interesting that the little girls automatically got into the older girls room with no real interest in the older boys room and that the little boys automatically get into the older boys room but have no interest in their sisters' rooms.
Along the same lines, Joshua LOVES cars. We have showed him different sets of cars in the toy isles of the department stores. He cries when we put them back on the shelf (great news for Christmas!) The last time, we took cars away, we handed Josh a Barbie doll. He looked at it and pushed it angrily way.
We have not taught our boys that they should love cars and legos. They just do. We have not taught our girls that they should love dolls and pretty animals. They just do. I do not think it is wrong to teach gender rolls. It just doesn't seem necessary. It is like they were just born that way.
Friday, November 2, 2012
You Can Vote Pro-Life and Still Care for the Poor
As a mother of nine kids, and a defender of the traditional family, I'd like
to think that few things ruffle my feathers. I can handle a lot of noise, big
messes, daily elementary school homework, as well as being called hateful and
bigoted for supporting traditional marriage. However, one thing really ruffles
my fathers. I am bothered when someone tells me that I am not a "true
Christian" if I do not agree with his or her politics.
A Facebook friend posted an article she said was, "interesting with some valid points," in regards to the upcoming U.S. presidential election. I curiously started reading. Almost immediately, I could tell this was indeed what ruffles my feathers. And it did. In fact, it did so thoroughly, that I went through it point by point to refute all of the arguments.
The author, Jim Wallis, makes three common arguments against voting pro-life and pro-traditional marriage. He states:
With more than 2,000 verses in the Bible about poverty — and with freeing the poor and oppressed as central components of the Gospel's “good news" — shouldn’t we consider how the election will affect the poor and oppressed?
What he means is: If the candidate you are voting for is pro-life and pro-traditional marriage and doesn't plan to over tax the wealthy to pay for government programs for the poor, then maybe you aren't taking your religion seriously.
My response: A study done in the year 2000 found that religious people (those who attend church services at least once a week) were 25 percentage points more likely to give charitably than “secularists” (those who attend less than a few times per year, or have no religion). And that is not all. This same religious group of people in dollar amount gave 4 times more in a single donation than secularists. And religious people were 23 percentage points more likely to volunteer their time. It sounds like Christians actually are "freeing the poor and oppressed as central components of" their faith, and they are doing it independent of taxes.
The second point Jim Wallis makes is:
Many of us Christians are “pro-life,” but aren’t the nearly 20,000 children around the world who die every day of utterly preventable hunger and disease just as much a “sanctity-of-life” issue as the approximately 3,000 abortions that occurred in our country today. A very prominent conservative Catholic lamented to me last week how his side mostly cares about children before they are born and the liberals care more about kids afterward. Where is the consistency here.
What he means is: If you vote for a pro-life candidate that doesn't plan to super tax the wealthy, then you are responsible for the deaths of poor children in poor nations.
My response: First, by defending the lives of unborn babies, one does not automatically discount the lives of born children. The argument that conservatives care for children before they are born and liberals care for children after they are born is a very poor argument. A better argument would be that if one cares for unborn children then he or she is more likely to care for the children after they are born. The argument, however, like the argument above can be refuted with the same statistics. Religious people are 25% more likely to give aid in the form of money and give four times more than the amount of secularist people. And religious people are 23% more likely to give aid in the form of time and physical service. What one does says more than what one says.
The final argument of Jim Wallis’s that I want to refute is:
And does the Bible only talk about sex and marriage or also about social justice?
What he means: Social Justice means legalized gay marriage. If you do not believe gay marriage should be legalized then you are not following the teachings in the Bible.
My response: According an article in Wikipedia, "Social justice as a secular concept, distinct from religious teachings, emerged mainly in the late twentieth century, influenced primarily by philosopher John Rawls. Some tenets of social justice have been adopted by those on the left of the political spectrum." Social Justice is not the same as "justice" that is found in the Bible. Is it just for one couples sexuality to trample on the religious beliefs and parental rights of another couple? Is it just to deny children either a mother or a father because of the choices of the adults? If equality is to be considered in society shouldn’t the needs of children be at least equal to the desires of the adults?
In this election and all future elections, do not allow someone to use Christianity to try and persuade you to vote for the candidate that promotes abortions and gay marriage. One can care for the poor and promote life and family by voting pro-life and pro-family. But one cannot care for the poor and promote life and family by voting pro-abortion and pro-gay marriage.
A Facebook friend posted an article she said was, "interesting with some valid points," in regards to the upcoming U.S. presidential election. I curiously started reading. Almost immediately, I could tell this was indeed what ruffles my feathers. And it did. In fact, it did so thoroughly, that I went through it point by point to refute all of the arguments.
The author, Jim Wallis, makes three common arguments against voting pro-life and pro-traditional marriage. He states:
With more than 2,000 verses in the Bible about poverty — and with freeing the poor and oppressed as central components of the Gospel's “good news" — shouldn’t we consider how the election will affect the poor and oppressed?
What he means is: If the candidate you are voting for is pro-life and pro-traditional marriage and doesn't plan to over tax the wealthy to pay for government programs for the poor, then maybe you aren't taking your religion seriously.
My response: A study done in the year 2000 found that religious people (those who attend church services at least once a week) were 25 percentage points more likely to give charitably than “secularists” (those who attend less than a few times per year, or have no religion). And that is not all. This same religious group of people in dollar amount gave 4 times more in a single donation than secularists. And religious people were 23 percentage points more likely to volunteer their time. It sounds like Christians actually are "freeing the poor and oppressed as central components of" their faith, and they are doing it independent of taxes.
The second point Jim Wallis makes is:
Many of us Christians are “pro-life,” but aren’t the nearly 20,000 children around the world who die every day of utterly preventable hunger and disease just as much a “sanctity-of-life” issue as the approximately 3,000 abortions that occurred in our country today. A very prominent conservative Catholic lamented to me last week how his side mostly cares about children before they are born and the liberals care more about kids afterward. Where is the consistency here.
What he means is: If you vote for a pro-life candidate that doesn't plan to super tax the wealthy, then you are responsible for the deaths of poor children in poor nations.
My response: First, by defending the lives of unborn babies, one does not automatically discount the lives of born children. The argument that conservatives care for children before they are born and liberals care for children after they are born is a very poor argument. A better argument would be that if one cares for unborn children then he or she is more likely to care for the children after they are born. The argument, however, like the argument above can be refuted with the same statistics. Religious people are 25% more likely to give aid in the form of money and give four times more than the amount of secularist people. And religious people are 23% more likely to give aid in the form of time and physical service. What one does says more than what one says.
The final argument of Jim Wallis’s that I want to refute is:
And does the Bible only talk about sex and marriage or also about social justice?
What he means: Social Justice means legalized gay marriage. If you do not believe gay marriage should be legalized then you are not following the teachings in the Bible.
My response: According an article in Wikipedia, "Social justice as a secular concept, distinct from religious teachings, emerged mainly in the late twentieth century, influenced primarily by philosopher John Rawls. Some tenets of social justice have been adopted by those on the left of the political spectrum." Social Justice is not the same as "justice" that is found in the Bible. Is it just for one couples sexuality to trample on the religious beliefs and parental rights of another couple? Is it just to deny children either a mother or a father because of the choices of the adults? If equality is to be considered in society shouldn’t the needs of children be at least equal to the desires of the adults?
In this election and all future elections, do not allow someone to use Christianity to try and persuade you to vote for the candidate that promotes abortions and gay marriage. One can care for the poor and promote life and family by voting pro-life and pro-family. But one cannot care for the poor and promote life and family by voting pro-abortion and pro-gay marriage.
Thursday, November 1, 2012
Halloween Fun
| At the pumpkin patch:Teenager not wanting her picture taken |
Halloween Fun began Friday night with the ward Halloween party and Trunk
or Treat. Then on Saturday, we drove down to Provo for a trip to the
pumpkin patch and a family Halloween party that lasted until after
midnight. Monday night we carved, etched or painted our pumpkins. Early
this morning we had the elementary school costume parade. Finally this
evening we concluded Halloween festivities with trick or treating in our
neighborhood. I love how Halloween is a combination of harvest
celebrations, costumes, candy and fun. We love Halloween around here.
| Entering the Corn Maze |
| John and his brother Jeremy wearing their little children |
| Another teenager not wanting her picture taken |
| Not a teenager |
| Adam peeking out of one of the houses at the Pumpkin Patch Alice in Wonderland Playground |
| Arwen was pretty grumpy through the pumpkin patch |
| Playing in leaves back at Grandma's House |
| We had some pretty fun Halloween activities for the Family party. Here Anya is making a ghost. |
| Ruth is playing with the green slime we made. |
| And these are the q-tip skeletons the kids made. |
| Back home, Monday night, we carved the pumpkins we got from the pumpkin patch on Saturday. This is Anya and her Jack-o-Lantern |
| Ruth's |
| Kate's |
| Adam's |
| Rachel's |
| Anya and all of the Jack-o-lanterns |
| Joseph at the Costume Parade |
| Josh at the Costume Parade |
| Zebra Rachel Marching with her classmates |
| Adam Marching |
| Ready to Trick or Treat Halloween Night |
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